ready to fall in love?
Starting with You.
Let's Talk Love.
You already know something needs to shift.
Maybe you've been dating for a while and it keeps going nowhere.
Maybe you've done the therapy, read the books, downloaded the apps... and you're still here. Wondering what you're missing.
Babe. You're not missing anything.
You're just dating from the wrong place.
And here's why that's actually exciting: when you shift that one thing, it doesn't just change your love life. It changes your whole life. Your confidence. Your clarity. The way you walk into a room. The way you make decisions. The way you feel in your body.
We're not just here to find you a partner.
We're here to find your favorite YOU.
And we're going to have a blast doing it.
Here's what nobody tells you about dating...
Most dating advice focuses on what you're doing wrong.
Say this. Don't say that. Wait three days to text back. Be mysterious. Be available but not too available.
Exhausting. And honestly? It doesn't work.
Because the problem was never your strategy.
Here's what's actually going on.
A lot of women are dating from scarcity.
From "I better make this work because what if there's nobody better out there?"
From "maybe I'm not worthy of what I really want."
From staying way too long with someone's potential instead of paying attention to who they actually are right now.
And then there are the stories. Oh, the stories. 😅
"All the good men in Vancouver are taken."
"I need to move cities to find my person."
"Men my age only want younger women."
"Maybe I'm just too much."
(I had the move cities one too, by the way.
Spoiler: the location was never the problem. 😄)
These aren't character flaws. They're patterns. Old stories. Nervous system responses that developed long before you ever downloaded an app.
But here's the thing: you can't attract what you haven't become.
And you can't become her by thinking your way there.
You have to feel your way there.
In your body. In your nervous system. In the way you actually show up.
That's the work. And it's so much more fun than it sounds.
So what does this actually look like?
This is not talk therapy.
This is not a course you buy and never finish.
And it is definitely not me handing you a script for what to text him back.
This is real, live, personalized coaching. Just you and me, getting into the good stuff.
We go deep into what's actually running the show.
The stories, the patterns, the parts of you that are still operating from old wounds and old programming. We bring them into the light, we hold them with compassion, and we upgrade the software.
And then we practice. Because knowing something in your head is very different from your nervous system actually believing it. So we practice being her. The woman who trusts herself. Who knows her yes and her no. Who shows up on a date anchored in her heart instead of desperate for approval.
We also get really practical.
We'll look at your dating profile.
How you're showing up on dates.
Where you're overriding yourself.
Where you're playing small.
Where you could be having so much more fun.
Because here's my thing: dating gets to be really fun when your come-from is clean. And by the time we're done, yours will be.
Here's how we work together
Private Coaching
This is the most intimate, personalized work I do.
Just you and me, in a dedicated container built around your specific patterns, desires, and life.
We go deep. We move fast. And we have a really good time doing it.
What's included:
✦ Bi-weekly 1:1 coaching sessions
✦ Whatsapp support between sessions
✦ Personalized embodiment practices and meditations
✦ Online dating profile support
✦ Somatic tools and resources tailored to you
✦ My full presence, intuition, and heart
3 month and 6 month containers available.
Group Coaching Container
Same powerful work, shared with a small intimate group of women who get it. Because sometimes the most healing thing is realizing you're not alone in this.
What's included:
✦ Weekly group coaching calls
✦ Aligned Dating video framework
✦ Online dating profile support
✦ Embodiment practices and meditations
✦ A community of women doing the work alongside you
✦ And more juicy goodness
Coming soon. Spots will be limited.
Why work with me?
I'm twice certified through two ICF-accredited coaching programs with a deep focus on embodiment, nervous system regulation, and relational dynamics.
I'm also a certified ADHD coach (and someone who lives with ADHD) which means I genuinely understand how to work WITH your nervous system instead of against it.
But honestly?
My real credentials are this:
I've been in the personal growth game for a long time. I've done the programs, the intensives, the trainings, the plant medicine, the therapy, the breathwork...
the list is embarrassingly long and wonderfully entertaining. 😄
I did all of it so I could figure out what actually works.
And now I get to hand you the shortcut.
I don't coach from theory. I coach from lived experience, presence, intuition, and a genuine love for people.
All of you is welcome here.
The mess, the hope, the weird, the wonderful.
All of it.
What Women Are Saying
"Working with Aliyah has been the biggest game changer in my life. I got clear on what I'm a yes for and finally started trusting myself. I stopped trying to control things and just started being me. From that place, everything shifted. Life felt easier, more fun. Dating became more fun. And I met someone who truly sees me and loves me in a way I didn't even know was possible. Aliyah creates a space where you feel safe to be fully yourself, while also calling you forward in the best way. She helps you laugh at how ridiculous we can be, and she makes the process fun. This work changed everything for me." — Patricia
"Aliyah has honestly been life-changing to work with. It felt a bit like kismet. I was at a point where I was ready to stop abandoning myself, and she has held such a gentle, grounded space while I've had download after download about how I actually want to live my life. She sees me the way I'm learning to see myself, with compassion, clarity, and deep belief. Working with her feels supportive, spacious, and quietly powerful. I always leave our sessions feeling more aligned, more honest, and more like myself." — Luvia
"Aliyah's warmth and genuine encouragement helped me settle in from the start. I truly felt like she was cheering ME on. In our time together I had a beautifully vulnerable breakthrough that gave me more language, understanding, and compassion for my own struggles. This was an area I wasn't even aware of until we worked together. If a friend asked me what it's like to work with her I'd say: be open, be honest, lean back, and let your heart go where it wants to go. Aliyah will guide you in a good way." — Jackie
"The energy Aliyah brings into sessions is fun, grounding, and light all at once. It's quite unique and sets a really beautiful tone. What I loved most was that there was never a push for major change, just small lens shifts that seemed small at first yet created massive impact. This changed the way I engaged in relationships with my friends and partner, and I am deeply grateful for that. She sets up a space that makes you feel safe, understood, and not alone." — Jaiden
Ready to find your favorite you?
Here's what I know for sure: you didn't land on this page by accident.
Something in you is ready.
Maybe it's a quiet whisper.
Maybe it's a full body yes screaming at you.
Either way, you're here.
And that means something.
The clarity call is free. It's real.
It's not a sales pitch dressed up as a conversation.
It's a genuine exploration of where you are, where you want to be, and whether working together feels aligned.
You'll leave with more clarity than you came in with. I promise.
And if we're a fit?
We get to do this together. And babe, it's going to be so SO good.
You don't have to keep doing this alone.
And dating doesn't have to keep feeling this hard.
My superpower is seeing your magic and helping you claim it.
Come find your favorite you. I'll be right here.
Not ready for a call yet?
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